FORGIVENESS: One of the Sweetest Fruits of the Gospel

President Monson teaches us to forgive others when he said, “It doesn’t really matter what the issue was. It cannot and should not be left to injure. Blame keeps wounds open. Only forgiveness heals.” In my life, I’ve had plenty of opportunities to practice the principle of forgiveness for others. While it’s not at all easy, and the hurt still remains, it’s important to be able to continually move forward.

The one thing that helps me to move forward rather than ruminate in the past is this: our Savior does not ruminate, he lovingly and willingly forgives. I am trying to follow the example of the Savior, and as difficult as it may be, he makes it easier for me. In this aspect, He truly takes my yoke upon Him and makes my burden light.

If I can ever hope for forgiveness of my imperfections, I must first be willing to forgive the imperfections and mistakes of others, even when they cause me great hurt and pain. Our Father in Heaven has made this clear, that it is not an option, but it is required for us to forgive others. However, He has also provided His Son’s Atonement to make all things fair in the end. Whatever injustices exist in this life, all will be taken care of eventually. I need to have faith in this principle and trust the Lord when He speaks. “The Savior is able and eager to forgive our sins…” (Neil L. Andersen) we too need to strive to forgive others, regardless of the details, and trust in the Lord’s promises.